WE CAN MAKE OUR LIFE EASIER WITH A LITTLE CHANGE IN OUR PERSPECTIVE :)

Everyone thinks of changing the world

but no one thinks of changing himself.

It is not that i am all positive or not practical enough but it is just that i feel it is good to havemore than one view to look at things. Think of a three dimensional cube,we all know how to draw it but the one who look at it can see it in more than one way. In the same way if we look at small things in life in a positive way we can avoid small tensions. It is always good to be flexible. This certainly makes your life easier.
Here i am writing no new thing but a better view to the most common things we hear around.
A few of opinions ihave formed with my own experiences and the others,people around me made me realize that we can look at it in this way too.

1. IT OFTEN HAPPENS PEOPLE PROMISE US TO MEET ON A PARTICULAR DAY AND THEY FAIL TO DO SO AND THE WORST THING IS,THEY DON'T EVEN INFORM US.
we feel betrayed and we stop trusting that person. If we are very sensitive we feel really bad and most of the time keep it in our heart.
BUT if he or she is a friend,we can always think it in this way..' may he had a strong reason..and he didn't even informed..some really important thing must be there and we'll clarify it when we talk next'

2. WE OFTEN FEEL ALL PEOPLE AROUND ARE SELFISH , PARICULARY WHEN REACH AT HIGHER LEVELS IN LIFE( higher studies or jobs).
BUT all people can never be bad...how can God leave such a nice person like you surronded ny all bad people. If you are good,it becomes obvious few others will be good too..

3. WHEN A GOOD PHASE OF LIFE GETS OVER(such as a college life). IT IS GOOD TO MISS THOSE DAYS BUT ALWAYS HOPE FOR THE BETTER ONES. DONT GET HOOKED UP TO THOSE DAYS.
BUT do not cry because it is over but smile because it happened.

4.WHEN PEOPLE PART FROM EACH OTHER,THEY GET AN EGO. THAT WHO CALLS FIRST.YOU MISS OTHERS BUT YOU ALWAYS KEEP WAITNIG FOR THEIR CALL FIRST AND IF THEY DON'Y,YOU FEEL BAD.
BUT there should not be any ego guys. If you want to call,don't hesitate. Call the person. He may have that too..but you can always correct YOURSELF atleast!

5.PEOPLE OFTEN FEEL LIFE IS FULL OF PAINS(if not you..but i am sure you must have heard it many times from others)
BUT life is all about facing challenges not pains actually! Love life.

6.DO NOT BE FRIENDS WITH HIM/HER. YOU CANT TRUST HIM/HER.
BUT trust is always required if you get into any relation. You would not get hurt even if you put that trust willingly. Either trust him/her or never give name to that realtion( specially friends).
You can not say,he is a friend but i cant trust him.!

7.WHEN PEOPLE GET DEPRESSED AND SOUND SAD MOST OF THE TIMES,WE OFTEN FEEL 'YE TO AISA HI HAI..PARESHAN AATMA..NO USE TALKING TO HIM'
BUT if he is a friend..you can say that ways. you must know the reasond for his actions. Yoy cant leaving him saying 'ye to aisa hi hai'. Think after imagining yourself at his place and then you'll get better reasons. Instead of blaming him,you'll understand him and that makes feel good.

8.PEOPLE OFTEN FEEL LONELY.
BUT when you feel alone,you get an opportunity to know yourself, you get to spend time with yourself which is so difficult in the busy life.
MOREOVER you can never be alone..your close ones are always there. And when you feel their absence..come in light..look at your shadow..it is always their( avoid to stay in dark,when you feel low).

9. IT IS NOT ALWAYS THAT ONE THING IS RIGHT AND THE OTHER IS WRONG.
BUT the two or more than two things can be right too..we talk what we have experienced,others might have got a different experience.

hope these things could be of some help..you can share your personal experiences too..when you changed your perspective and started looking at things with a view better than others..

A PESSIMIST COMPLAINS ABOUT THE WIND;

AN OPTIMIST EXPECTS IT TO CHANGE;

THE REALIST ADJUSTS THE SAILS.