Hmm..life is going too fast..and probably i am going too slow..for me relations are much more important than anything else..and i believe...we should make new relations only when we are able to handle old ones..otherwise problems arise..and it becomes difficult to fight troubles when human emotions are involved..Different people different things..everything tries to change one’s behaviour..and as I believe..to be yourself in a world which is constantly trying to make you somebody else is the biggest thing..people often change..i have seen them..who have turned strict, stiff ,who have forgot that once they had a great sense of humour..that they were full of life..but thanks to troubles around them..which remains constant and thus successful..They fight the troubles..fight themselves to overcome the problems..but finally they surrender.. its difficult to solve all the problems..and come out winning..and the easier way is to escape the troubles..but ..difficulties are not just ours..but our near and dear ones are involved..and that stops us to run away..(plus we don’t have enough money to escape!!)..
In my case..something similar happened..and it kept on repeating its self..(as if God thought i love it..!)..i am changing too..turning negative..fighting life..at one time I laugh like anything..as if I just needed a chance to get started with my never stopping smile..and other times I feel totally low.. and believe me..these extremes are killing me..As every other person even I want to live happily..fight things but at the end come out as a winner..but I fight fight and fight…get all my energy back..talk to different people..who can help me..suddenly..i feel as if I am on track again..only till the same problem rise again…and I am back on zero..even people with whom I share things get bored of listening the same things again and again..You know I love life..because its beautiful..i love the people around me..i love life..because it gives me different challenges and difficult situations..but when I get the same situation again again..i get bored of life..i feel..”NOT AGAIN”..(abhi to sab theek hua tha..)..
Huh..! I don’t want to change myself..i don’t want to get sick of the problem and get moulded according to it..i am a human not a clay with a different identity and uniqueness…oh god..help me not change..into a tough.strict..someone who have forgotten whats life is all about..
Want to be a winner in life..:)
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You are a fighter yaar.You have and you will always come out winning. problems are a way of life....
ADB (wink)
P.S.
And nice blog. BTW, why did you change it?
I dont knw riki wht to say...bt lyf has alwys been like dt...we cn only overcm it by being wd each other...helpin out the other whn he or she z low....n be committed to defeat it n cm out as a winner...n i knw u cn do it...jst TRY once with ur best efforts...n u will c u r out of it...ALL THE BEST!!!
to mayank and and srishti..
i have not written it out of depression..its just something i have observed around me..and obviously with me..
AND ya life is all about facing new challenges..thank you angels..:)
all the best to you too..
wat I believe is one who changes before its required could b in loss, the one who changes after it is required will b in loss, the one who changes when it is required will survive and will b the winner!
I would like to add the quote here-It is not the strongest one who survives, nor the most intelligent one but the one who is most quick to adapt and change.
Change is necessary, it is required, b it negative or positive u have to change, either change with time or it will b forced to u later on & if u still don't accept to change u wont survive.
Don't try to b consistent u need to flow with life, u need to change always.
Constant is nothing.
@ himanshu..
but to change in a negative way..and that too just because the world want you to change is not right..you need to have your own consent..otherwise after years..when you'll realize..huh..!i have changed..why..would be difficult to answer..and we'll be left wondering..hum kya the and kya hogaye..
change is good..but it has to be with your consent..not just that someone else want you to change..without even convincing you..
and if you convinced..than definitly it will be of no harm instead you'll have a better you..
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there is nothing like negative or positive, good or bad in this world, everything is good everything is bad- it all depends on your point of view,
when change is required-it is mandatory! no escape- sooner or later- u have to do it.
@ IKCHA/Minki
burnol use kar !!!
@ himanshu..
hmm..ya..the best thing is to turn positive..!!
baki life has to be challenging..
its good to say.." i changed myself" rather than saying .."halat ne mujhe badal diya.."
@ mayank..
arey i was waiting for next blog(which is not an advertisement) to post comment..daily i check my gmail to check if you have written any..
i am the real fan of your blogs..
Its better to turn negative than to turn positive because negativity last through your life time it keeps you happy if u turn negative cos it dominates your life throughout, positivity/goodness etc wins only at last moment, otherwise throughout your life negativity/hell/bad will twist you, kill you, its better to b on the negative side and enjoy throughout your life and loose at the end, than to struggle to b positive and do good throughout your life, you will tear your soul apart trying to b good, and win at the end, winning at the end is no fun, cos its the END-time is gone, game over!
@ mayank
abay gadhe 2 paise ka blog nai tera-
sashisushimi nagasakihonda kawasakihitachi aiwa!!!
@ himanshu..
i didnt get it..how you enjoy with negativity..see..if u do enjoy in it..thats again a very positive point..so keep that thing alive..whatever you name it..positive energy or negative energy..if it keeps you happy and make you enjoy your life throughout..its something else..not negativity..!
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@ mayank
abay teri aisi ki taisi...
choo.....
look as normally recognized there are three kind of categories for people- good, bad and confused ones. The good ones are- they suffer throughout there life cos they r good, they'll definitely win at the last but they must suffer a lot. On the other hand the bad ones- they will definitely loose at the end but till they r alive they are full throttle, they live to the max. The confused ones are never on the either side- they'll suffer and rejoice on an indefinite and uncertain pattern, they r unpredictable and cannot b understood. Good r like you, bad r like Hitler, confused r like me. According to the people who come under the bad category-they r not bad, they r the superior ones. Enjoying in negativity means- you have lot of negativty inside you but because u r bad you do not recognise it, bad people are people with lot of negative power and less positivity, therefore they feed their negtive qualities because according to them those r their strenghts/etc. Bad people usually enjoy their life through-out with the dominating bad/negative qualities they have, they cannot change themselves because of several reasons. One reason is belief-actualy they believe wat they are doing is good which is seen as bad/wrong commonly, it si not easy to convince them to change, specialy when they r living with it for long and enjoying. Secondly, it is actualy very tough to change, even if they know there bad qualities- change is like breaking marbles between teeths-next to impossible. Therefore good people generally die good, bad die bad- change requires some kind of trauma. Good can b pushed to turn bad and bad can b turned to good, it takes time, experience and finally the blow-the big thing, emotional breakdown-the traumatizing factor in life.
@himanshu..
form a blog and post ir there..!kiddin..
@himanshu
hm..
but the question is..in which category you want to enter..
as you mentioned you are among THE CONFUSED people..you can choose the either side..without a trauma..
i completely agree with everything you wrote..except..
"The good ones are- they suffer throughout there life cos they r good, they'll definitely win at the last but they must suffer a lot."
if you are good..you wont ever regret to be good..so their is no question of suffering throughout..
as bad people doesnt know how bad they and enjoy all the time..good people doesnt care about anything..but they just live a satisfactory life..all the time with all love..
and who said Hitler was happy?
Hitler was happy as all the bad people are without regrets until they realize what bad r they doing/have done, and realization means changing point of view-that is next to impossible. U cannot choose category by yourself, otherwise their would b nothing as wrong/bad etc, its the belief+the point of view/attitude, it takes a lifetime to change. Secondly negativity is all around you cannot escape, what goes around comes around.
what goes around comes around..
this is what i said earlier..give the world your best..you'll get the best..
finally we agreed on a point..!
what you said goes with different quote- e.i.- wat u give is wat u get.
wat I said is different Riki ji-
I meant what ever goes in the world- you will be ultimately effected by it may b it could be even- 0.00000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000001%, but u will be effected, even if some1 murders some1 somewhere on north pole- it will ultimately effect your life- as it may take generations/years/unimaginable time but u will b effected.
I would like to quote chaos theory over here-
It has been said that something as small as the flutter of a butterfly's wings can ultimately cause a typhoon halfway around the world.
I suggest to watch 'butterfly effect' Ikcha has it.
@himanshu..
let everything effect us yar..its life..
kuch effect hi nahi karega..ye kese possible hai jab tak koma mein na chale jao..
any way..let it effect..n let it change us..i am just saying..don't change against your will..and we ave enough energy and power to resist the change which we don't want..
we often change without even realizing it and one day suddenly we feel i was so good and jolly and now..this should'nt happen..and if this happens..just get on track on the day you realise it..
Seems that we are always getting ready to live but never living.
We always want to achieve a goal, and if we don't, we suffer. Even if we do, we still suffer because we can't hold to it forever.
We try to resist change, but that's futile and destructive, by doing that we don't align with the principles of the univers, we rather resist it and that's why we suffer. Don't resist change, don't resist anything that you have no control over it. Accept whatever comes as it is and then decide how to respond to the situation. If you're stuck in the mud, if you resist you'll go down even deeper. Just accept that you're in the mud, don't deny it, and next make a conscious choice: either you decide to remain in the mud (which i doubt it), or you take proper action and get out of there. The key thing is to accept your situation and don't deny it, don't say it shouldn't have happened. Accept it and then move on.
@ice..
yes i agree here with you dear..ignoring or escaping is never a solution but to face and move ahead with your own consious is always better..
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