Monday, September 8, 2008

some relations which do not effect us..but certainly they exist..an example..

My school days are over..i have completed my graduation..and i am still a student..A lot of things changed in my life..people around me..teachers..and alot more..what has not changed is..my source of commutation.!! NO,it's not a cab or bus..but i usually take rikshaw..and a lot of time i use the phrase 'meri adhi zindagi to rikshe per hi kat gayi'.
Earlier i always felt good avoiding crowdy buses and taking riksha..specially in monsoon with lovely winds blowing..and i just loved itbut then..daily..taking rikhshaw all the time became irritaing!
Anyway..my point here is not to describe my super journey on these three wheelers but how in this world we form some bonds unknowingly and probably most of us remain unaware of the strange bonding which is created as most of the time it stays ineffective..
We often forget their faces but they don't.
i am talking about rikshaws and rikshawala just to give an example..Following are a few remarks wich really surprised me and made me write this post...read on..
" Aap mere rikshe mein 6 mahine baad bethi ho"
"Apka school khatm hogaya"
"Pahle to aap isime jati thi"
"Aap kabhi is tarf se aati hain,kabhi us taraf se"
" idhar jaogi ya dusri taraf" and when i said idhar.."aap to udharse jati thi,subeh 8 baje"
I once asked one of them.."bhaiya chaloge?" he didn't reply.just smiled..and suddenly i realised..ye to wahi hai..and in his smile probaly he conveyed.."ye bhi koi puchne ki baat hai"
The funniest and a little embarassing thing happend when i asked rikshewale the way to recomform and get a shortcut to my home..he said "nahi bas yahi rasta hai..hum pahuncha denge"(he might have thought i was really new to the place)..though it wasn't far..but i was really tired to walk onfoot..and finally i reached where i ws heading to..and he said to others around.."bechari bhatak rahi thi,wo to hamne pahuncha diya!!" and i walked from there at my best speed..
i wrote this just to make a point..that though we have our own world..sometimes people around us make those bondings..which surely do not effect us...and are negligible..but the point is they exist..

7 comments:

Himanshu Garg said...

Riki u r a girl, the whole world is like that to a girl, if it was me instead of, u he would have said nothing+no reactions, there are always some advantages and disadvantages for both, if compared.
Neways, u just enjoy!

mayank said...

I agree with Him a little bit on this one. Being a girl has its advantages like the ones you mentioned(obviously there are dis advantages too).

But yeah, we really are dependent on far too many people than we face in our day to day life.
I was cursing a big truck on road at around 11pm when i was stuck in a traffic jam. I said why in the hell are these trucks even allowed to move even after 10pm?
Then when i got out of the jam, these are the people who give us supply of almost everything we consume,they make everything available to us at our nearby stores. We live in comforts of city because of them.Had there been no supply, we would have been living in pseudo cities as remore as villages.

Riki Jain said...

yes i too agree with you guys to an extent..i mean..obviously...but i am just giving an example that touched me somewhere..may be you have got different..as mayank just described..
:)

Unknown said...

no riki i dnt agree with these guys....we need to be observant...of everythin whch happens aroundus ...n i really enjoyd readin it...plz alwys mk us feel dt....u knw wht..no wrds

Riki Jain said...

yeah srishti...sure.. :)

AASTHA BHARDWAJ said...

Hi riki
well frankly speaking i don't like these people not because of that they are poor but because their mentality is worst even u cant think what type of lewd comments they pass especially on girls.i cant tell them on dis global page. i just try to ignore the rickshaws as far as possible..i know that its not practical but seriously whenever i go and take any rickshaw i think 10 times by his gestures and expressions whether i shud go or not.

Riki Jain said...

@aastha..
i agree with you dear..(obviously!being a girl i hve faced it too..)
all kind of people exist..i am talking about the good ones here..the others doesnot desrve to be talked about.

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