WHEN WE HAVE A CRUSH..

Feelings feelings and feelings.. Though we have entered in practical world,we can not get awy from our cute feelings. I called them cute because they are innocent,sweet,self driven! I mean, you can not just stop them.

This is about having "CRUSHES". Looking from a managerial perspective,there can be long term crushes and short term crushes!

I believe that at every point of life,we are attracted towards someone. Someone is always there in our heart. But this someone keeps on changing every now and then. If you like someone and you are in contact, there is no harm in expressing it..infact you should express it,share it but without expectations(its almost impossible to live without expectations). If the infatuation is from both the sides at the same time.. YOU ARE LUCKY..! But if this is one sided,its a bit painfull(more then a bit!!),but then, as i said, its a cute feeling.. just have a wonderful experience. Most of the people doesnot express their feelings,(probably they believe in distant crush relationship!)may be because they fear loosing a friend. BUT i guess, if you can express it one day and never show it again,( sounds totally impractical..!!but..try..)it feels good. Your friendship remains intact plus you seem to be honest enough because you confessed your feeling honestly. I STARTED THIS POST FOR SHARING THE FEELINGS ABOUT HAVING CRUSH ON A COMMITED PERSON..OR HAVING THE CRUSH WHEN YOU YORSELF ARE COMMITED..! When you get attracted towards a commited person,you find a COMPLETE BLOCKAGE..! There seems no hope..but still you try managing it..you keep your feeling inside you till you fall for someone else..! And how difficult it becomes when you want to be friends.. Huh..!! THEN COMES THE DIFFERENT SITUATION..when a commited person gets a strong crush on someone else..NOW WHAT!! At this point you dont want to be dishonest with your partner..and at other point, you want to spend all the time with your crush..! BUT i guess we have turned modern enough,that we find no harm spending time with our crushes,even partners are cool about it( atleast they try to pretend so..!).

They are probably confident for their love. WHAT FEARS ME IS THE SITUATION..when you are commited, (that means you are already on a safer side..!)you have a crush..you start spending time with you crush,be friends with that person..AND suddenly you realise..your crush too have statred liking you.. It becomes a mess!

It becomes difficult to escape from this situation!! You get back in your life leaving your crush(who is no more your crush,but now you are his/her crush). I do not know what kind of "END" this situation can have..but possibly we all go through such a situation.. ALL THE BEST..

NOTHING IS PLANNED,BUT STILL TRY TO AVOID THE MESS.. BUT ENJOY THOSE ""CUTE"" FEELINGS.